@indie I totally agree that facebook is 'enemy territory' as far as anyone with a mind to organize or live independently from the mainstream media and exploitative social currents.
The reasons why Facebook is still so dominant are many, but definitely includesthe 'have money to make money' cycle of capitalism. Facebook can run advertising on other media as well as pull eyes to their platform with live streams & charity events featuring famous/well-connected/profitable brands, which has a self-reinforcing effect.
I'd say besides that advantage of capital, the network effect also makes it difficult to switch to Mastodon. I don't know anyone irl who uses it. Everyone I follow here are random folx that truly, I don't know all that well.
For what it's worth, I picked ecosteader because I was on a solarpunk kinda kick at the time, but sunbeam.city seemed way too much like trying to be some kind of internet utopia with no material basis. Seeing as it imploded (still not sure how), I think I made the right choice with the more practical and focused vibe of ecosteader. Also I'm in the PNW so it's close to home.
Thanks, @kris; I'm really glad you're here.
I'll get ecosteader back into the more fun hackery ecosteading topics after the P0 threat of DJT/D is voted out or arrested or otherwise removed from office.
I spent some time in Utah, where "Republican patriarchal society" is a specific vein of Christianity known as Mormonism; it is the dominant culture, and anybody who tries to explore or communicate outside of that structure is essentially bullied into self-loathing or depression. The ones who do end up joining get to see the inside of a hideous monstrosity of men in suits touching young women as they "bless" them. Which is really a brainwashing to convince them men are more powerful than women and that they will never survive without someone from the patriarchy to take care of them.
Catholicism is basically the same thing under a different label, from what I understand. They're both insanity.